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For teaching me to express myself and for loving me regardless of how much I hated myself. For entertaining me with endless songs, videos, interviews and films and making me forget my problems. For being a familiar face and voice when I was having a horrible day. For being the only constant in my life since the day I was born.
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“Is it about her, her music, her message? I love Madonna for all of it. “I always get asked why I love Madonna so much,” he began, no doubt a response to his consistent and fanatical online devotion to the musician. Philip Petro, a staunch Madonna fan, took the time to passionately describe why he has dedicated much of his life to stanning one of pop culture’s most distinguishable figures. Personally, I often feel empowered in my femininity through their music and it’s helped me feel comfortable in it,” said another. “Female pop stars often are strong in their femininity or redefine it and are not ashamed. “Gay men use women as avatars for themselves,” one Twitter user said, and this perspective quickly collected several Likes. But, fortunately for me, I’ve got Gay Twitter to consult – and its users never disappoint. Since Posh, I haven’t experienced the same level of hopeless devotion towards a pop artist. Admittedly, I am not as hard of a “stan” as others. Cher, Madonna, Ariana, Taylor, Gaga, Kylie – you name her and she’s got legions of hard-stanning homosexuals who’ve assembled shrines immortalizing her in their bachelor apartments. To idolize a female pop star is nothing new for queer-identifying men. I even followed her devastatingly short-lived and substandard solo music career.
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Truth be told, Posh was my first crush, and when she married David Beckham I was genuinely hurt, because I loved her. Whenever she’d seductively point her finger at the camera – her signature move – I’d squeal. Mine? Victoria Beckham, the fashion-savvy Spice Girl with resting bitch face and the fewest verses on any of the girl group’s iconic, coming-of-age tracks. Pop culture is the gay religion and pop stars are our goddesses…Įvery gay has his icon, and I am no different.